You might think that the cause of any marriage breakup is to the incompatibility. While this is true, it is just one of the many things that contribute to a separation. Perhaps one other reason that has been surfacing lately is the emotional dissatisfaction of men with their relationship with their wives. You might want to pause and ponder on these points that you tend to ignore, no thanks in part to your busy lives.
You’ve read it over and over on magazines, books, and articles and heard advice from family and friends – understanding is essential to any relationship. Men only require a few words so you have to listen to what they don’t say. Take time to know your man and show him that you sincerely care.
Lend an ear to issues your husband may want to discuss. Though you may feel uncomfortable with some of them, it is important that he feels you care about what he has to say. Engage him in conversations that are emotionally stimulating about family, friends, hopes and dreams. Be sensitive enough to his needs as this is sometimes more important than sex.
3. Get physical.
Men are quite different from women when it comes to matters in between the sheets. Make him feel that you are happy and he satisfies you in bed. If there are problems in that department, discuss it with him but make sure not to trample on his ego.
Never play games with your husband. Show him who you really are and don’t pretend or put on a mask for his sake. Do this and you will surely connect with your man emotionally. This way, he is able to trust you because you allow him to see you naked – emotionally. There should be no manipulation at any time ever.
Your marriage should be mutually beneficial. Your husband needs to believe that you will make him a better person; he will emotionally connect with you if he feels enhanced with you.
You should keep in mind that though this is about keeping your man emotionally satisfied, there is no excuse of forgetting about yourself. Keep the right amount of balance between your needs to be able to keep a satisfying married life.